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Last blog we started this topic on materialism. Man is natural and there is need for us to learn lessons form nature. Nature is a great teacher. When you open up a fruit, there are many seeds you can find in it. The reason for that is that it may be a blessing to others. Talking about the church and materialism we have to apply it as Jesus taught on materialism. We discover it is different from the prosperity of the world.
Solomon displayed this when he was told to ask whatever he wants from God. He asked for the key thing that causes him to be a blessing to others. You are blessed with material things to be a blessing to other. From nature we can see that abundance is our birthright. Looking at everywhere in the world we can see abundance. There is abundance of people, animals, galaxies, trees, stars and sea. It’s the will of God that we have all things in abundance.
The lesson I am learning from this is like what Washington T. Broker said ‘we shall prosper as we learn to do the common things of life in an uncommon way. Let down your buckets where you are’. This was demonstrated in the life of Moses; he did common things in uncommon ways. He was just to mention a few, born by slave but live as a son of a king, meekest of all men yet a mighty warrior, educated in the court of he king but could dwell in the desert with no reference to his old life and glamour. This is the royalty we are created with in life. The materials we have are to serve us and not the other way.
Reasons why we are having materialism epidemic in the church today are that people allow materials to identify them. We evaluate our worth by the money we have. This is the reason why people are craving for money indiscriminately in the church. People can go to any length to get money, most of the times in the way contrary to the will of God. Some others evaluate their security by the money they have. Others evaluate their success by the money they have. To some they acclaim their power by the money they have. The status of many is judged by the money they have. As much as this is true we need to understand that our identity is not by the materials we have but whom we are in Christ.
Misplaced identity has made many to have poverty and slavish mentality. Luke 12: 19-20 reiterated the story of the rich man but with poverty identity. The pathway to prosperity is in avoiding the slavish mentality. John Eude said the accomplishment of the divine will is the sole end for which we are in the world. You are in the world to fulfill a divine will.
Slavish mentality was demonstrated among the children of Israel on their way to the Land of Promise. They collected manna and kept for the following day thinking it may not be available for that day. This contradicted the divine rules. Four things make materialism strong in the church today. The four things are Control, Conflict, Confusion and Corruption.
Control is trying to hoard something to such an extent that it becomes useless to you and the people that are in need. Proverb pronounced that the people should curse such hoarders. The slaves are willing to disadvantage the community to their own advantage. Christ is worthy of all the praise because He disadvantage Himself so that the community can be at advantage.
Conflict is another problem confronting materialistic worshippers. The scripture says a proud man stirs up strife. Materialism makes people arrogant in the church. Proud means literally “wide of appetite,” that is, an inner drive that overlooks boundaries and warning signs and limits. A greedy person is unsatisfied with what he has. So he foolishly overreaches and triggers conflict with others.
Confusion is one of the problems of materialism. Solomon in the book of Proverbs stated that ‘The wicked worketh a deceitful work: but to him that soweth righteousness shall be a sure reward. The words for “deceptive wages” can also be translated “wages that are a lie.” Selfishness tells us, “Get what you want. Then you’ll be happy.” But it is a lie, to confuse us. Jesus stated that a corn of wheat must fall and die before it produces more, materialism projected another perceptive. This is the confusion in our time.
Corruption is the root problem of materialism. When church people can cheat people for money its abomination according to Pro. 20:23; the word abomination is a strong word in the bible. You might be ‘morally’ pure, but if you cheat people for money, your life is still an abomination in the sight of God. Do you owe anyone money you are not repaying? It’s abomination to the Lord.
General Douglas MacArthur, declared that ‘Life is a lively process of becoming’. He further said that on daily basis we add to what we know. We are encouraged to add to our past interest of last week, month and year. You can’t continue to live the same kind of life, thinking the same thoughts, relating the same personal experiences, having the same predictable reactions, it then means rigor mortis of the personality has set in.
When the word ‘we’ is used it’s talking about relationship that exist between us. There cannot be any sound relationship between man apart from the foundational relationship between him and God. Dictionary of Bible themes reveals that man is created to be in relationship with himself and with one another in friendship, marriage, family, society and the church. Reflecting on the ‘we’ in human life is beyond the idea of verbal testimony or witness. It takes living the daily life among others with understanding that you are complete by doing what you are created to do. To the Christians ‘we’ is living according to the injunction of the Lord that in everything you consider others before yourself. Certain attitudes and actions needed to be surrendered from the believer’s pattern of living, lest our testimony be lost to others. In keeping the spirit of ‘we’ among Christians there is need to live out a submissive relationship toward the government and to the employers we work under, even if those governments and employers are harsh and unfair.
In this blog I like to narrow ‘we’ to marriage relationship; and how to make it a healthy one. Good marriage or even bad one is not based on sex, money, or how many fights you have that makes for a happy union. What then makes for happy union you may ask? Howard Markman and Scott Stanley of the University of Denver help us understand, in part, that the key for good marriage is based on many small ways. This involves thinking about the partner periodically when they’re apart, take time-outs to soothe tempers, use humor as a coolant in arguments, and have softer start-ups when fighting. The way to keep the ‘we’ spirit is to influence each other on daily basis. Paul told us in Philippians 2:2-5 fulfill my joy by being like-minded, having the same love, being of one accord, of one mind. Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself. Let each of you look out not only for his interests, but also for the interests of others. Let this mind be in you which was also in Christ Jesus.
Keeping the spirit of ‘we’ is by obeying the following rules: study ‘we’ in the marriage in the light of ‘me’. This is to mean that you know about opposite sex so well that you know your spouse very well. Part of the study is put the difference between your need and your wants. By this I mean don’t bargain with sex; don’t become a marital prostitute. Don’t put your sexual life on before ‘play’ pay; this is a lose proposition. Make sure there is mutual consent to all you and your spouse decide to do as per your conjugal relationship within the frame of the scriptures. Another thing we need to note is that unilateral decisions should not be the order of the family, look always to God and not your spouse to take decisions. Let confidential matters remains behind closed doors; don’t criticize your spouse in the public or when others are there.